My Journey with Shelter Inc. and the Positive Futures Program

When I was paroled from prison, I was placed into a sober living house called Elda House in Pittsburg, California. Elda House was a critical step for me. It gave me time to stabilize, to build new habits, and to really start working on myself. After many years inside, it gave me something I hadn’t had in a long time: room to grow and freedom to pursue opportunities.

I stayed at Elda House for about 10 months, and during that time, I returned to college, earned a spot on the Dean’s List, and found my footing again. I started working and setting goals. But as my stay there neared its end, I was told I needed to begin the search for permanent housing. The idea of losing that stability, while juggling parole conditions, school, and personal recovery, was overwhelming. That’s when I was introduced to Shelter Inc. and the Positive Futures Program.

When I met Laurie Tolen from Shelter Inc., I could tell right away she wasn’t there to judge me. She was down to earth, direct, and understanding. She listened to my story, all of it, and didn’t flinch. Instead, she welcomed me into the program, laid out the expectations clearly, and empowered me to begin the next step of my journey.

What stood out most to me was the level of respect and autonomy I was given. Laurie told me about her team and assured me that they would find housing for me. She explained to me how the program worked, and it took a lot of pressure off me. I knew that I could not just sit around and wait for her and her team to find me housing. I knew that I needed to be proactive if I was going to find some place that I would be happy at.

Laurie and her team didn’t force anything on me. They trusted me to take the lead in finding the right place for myself, while they worked behind the scenes to help make that vision a reality. That trust made a huge difference. I was able to look for housing that felt like a good fit, safe, stable, and quiet enough for me to focus on school and stay away from negative influences or relapse triggers.

And that’s exactly what I did. I searched online, toured rooms, communicated with landlords, and kept in regular contact with Shelter Inc., whenever I had questions or leads. They supported me without micromanaging. That flexibility gave me the opportunity to build confidence and take responsibility in a healthy, supported way.

During the process of finding my housing, Laurie had said that Shelter Inc. would provide me with incentive furnishings, bath towels, and household supplies. Not only did they provide me with everything that a person would need to move into an apartment, house, room, whatever, they also delivered it to me. Then a month later, after living there, I got a call from Laurie asking if I needed anything. Shelter Inc. is really looking out for me and my needs to make sure I am comfortable, so I can be successful. Laurie even reached out to my landlord, roommate, inquiring about me and if the residency was a “good fit.” He said he appreciated that she took the time to ask him for his personal input and offer of support, if needed.

Thanks to Shelter Inc., I found a room that suits my needs. It’s close to college and provides the kind of peace I need to stay on track with my educational and career goals. I’m currently studying Sociology and Addiction Studies with the goal of becoming a certified drug and alcohol counselor. My past mistakes are part of my story, but they don’t define me anymore. I want to use those experiences to help others get back on track, just like I did.

Before entering this program, my barriers to housing included my criminal history and the fact that I’m on parole. Those things automatically disqualify me from many housing opportunities. But Shelter Inc. helped me navigate that. They advocated for me. They gave me a fair shot.

Because of this program, I’ve been able to maintain housing, continue my education, and stay sober. I’ve also become a mentor to others just getting out of prison. At the transitional housing program I came from, I served as the first point of contact for new residents, helping them navigate modern life after incarceration. That role gave me purpose and kept me grounded.

One of the things I appreciated most about Positive Futures was the way it encourages growth in stages. They help with the rent at first, but they also prepare you to take on more and more responsibility over time. That model works. It allows me to transition slowly into full independence, something that’s crucial for people reentering society after years behind bars.

To anyone considering working with Shelter Inc., I would say this: Do it! They don’t just provide housing, they provide opportunity, support, encouragement and respect. They meet you where you are, and if you’re willing to put in the work and invest in yourself, they’ll help you reach the next level.

For me, this program didn’t just offer a roof over my head. It helped rebuild the foundation of my life.

Benjamin Osborn – Positive Futures Participant 2025